Trust-is-a-Must-Why-Trust-is-Important-in-a-RelationshipRelationships end but just because you are apart, for now, does not mean you should completely close your doors to the possibility that you and your ex will be together again. Sometimes, events conspire to break you apart so you can be together as two people who are better and stronger. But how would you know there is still a chance you can get your ex back? Here are some of the telltale signs that there may be hope for a second (or third) chance. Check this out too: http://www.beautifulmd.com/5-usual-signs-theres-a-chance-you-can-get-your-ex-back/.

There is Talk About the Future.
You and your ex-are still on talking terms and may meet occasionally by chance or design. If in one or several of those chats they mention an event or a situation in the future where you are included, then there is a chance for you both. It is not likely that your ex would talk about something that has yet to happen and include you in it without thinking of the possibility that you may be together somehow.

What to do: When this happens, be cool about it, offer to add a few things to the conversation but do not force the issue. Showing acceptance of the idea of being together in the future should be enough. It is an act of unspoken approval that does not enforce on the other.

Reminiscing.
If your ex still sees a chance that you could be together, they may think about the times you had, particularly the good ones. When your ex reminisces about those moments, it may be because they miss the experience or have been thinking about them.

What to do: Be open about the topic and make it positive. Show your ex that you are still that person with whom they had that wonderful experience in the past and that wonderful times can still be had with you.

They Talk About How Your Relationship Ended.
When you talk about what ended your relationship, you and your ex are coming from two different sides, telling two different stories. If your ex is not blaming you and is just talking about the possible factors that contributed to your breakup, it may be because they have regrets. Maybe they have thought things over and are looking at past events from a fresh perspective.

What to do: Welcome the opportunity to discuss things the way they were but do it in a way that shows your respect for your ex and what you had. Avoid putting the blame on each other or playing the victim. Blaming and pointing fingers will only build resentment. If your ex is taking the chance to look back at what could have been done, they may be looking at a way to make things better.